Do we really make divorce too easy?
A common complaint is that divorce is too easy. That seems something of an overstatement, given what many people who have gone through the process of obtaining a divorce recently seem to think of their experience. Nevertheless, a legislator in Kansas, like ours here in Oklahoma, believes divorce is too easy, and wants to remove […]
Divorce or marriage with tension-laden stress?
Last week, we mentioned a bill in the Oklahoma legislature that would impose a six-month waiting period for couples considering a divorce. The ostensible purpose would be to allow couples additional time to reconsider their divorce and perhaps reconcile. Mention was made that it benefits children for a couple to remain married. One question raised […]
Will a waiting period reduce the divorce rate?
Family law is one of those areas where you can never be quite certain if you are witnessing a cause or an effect. Because when the law changes, everyone in Oklahoma is subject to the same law, and it’s difficult to see if difference is a result of the change in the law, or that […]
Spending too much time on the computer?
The use of computers for everything from Cyber-sex and obsessive updating of Facebook pages, to endless hours playing Worlds of Warcraft or other games is undeniable. The use of computer- or cellphone-related evidence in divorce cases is another trend that is undeniable. As we spend more time with computers and their tiny offspring, the smartphone, […]
Many children blame themselves for parent’s divorce
When you are in a failing relationship with your spouse, your emotions and concerns can become all-consuming. You may have a hard time dealing with many of the issues that will need your attention during your Oklahoma divorce. You will need to work with your attorney, and potentially other professionals, like accountants and tax attorneys, […]
Is divorce bad?
Divorce is typically seen as a bad thing. We do not know of any of our Oklahoma divorce clients who married with the intention of obtaining a divorce. We know divorce can have harmful psychological effects on children. Nevertheless, let us step back a moment, and examine what we mean when we say, “divorce is […]
Court will decide custody of Joey, but he isn’t a human child
It isn’t difficult to see why many people keep dogs as pets in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Coming home to an overly excited face and swooshing tail can lift one’s spirits on even the worst days. A dog’s love is unconditional — something that isn’t always true in human relationships. When a couple decides to end their […]
Own a business? Want alimony? Need an expert? How do you know?
When individuals tell a friend or family member that they plan to file for divorce, the first piece of advice is often “hire an attorney.” Having a divorce attorney’s eyes on your case as soon as possible is the best way to prepare for a divorce. Is this the only professional that should be on […]
Don’t throw your assets away in a divorce
People can become quite unhappy with their spouse during a divorce. Some feel betrayed, some wonder how they could have made such a poor choice, and many dislike the prospect of having to divide their marital assets, pay alimony and child support during an Oklahoma divorce. They can become very territorial regarding their assets and […]
Why do you want that divorce?
More things to think about when thinking about a divorce. There seems to be an endless supply of lists because there is a seemingly endless supply of divorces. For most people in Oklahoma, while they may be aware of certain aspects of divorce from speaking with friends and relatives who have been involved in a […]
